Run Forrest, run!!!!
This woman has too many secrets.
Are you sure she, really is a she???
Your letter reads like a Steven King novel – very scary. Her sense of humor about a dead body being in the room and you having to give up your handgun, does not sound funny. It sounds like a threat, besides dead bodies do not make noises.
It could be anything from an exotic pet, a child or someone held against their will in that room. Think the worst and hope for the best. Put her on the spot and tell her that the next time you come over you want to see what is in the room, she may tell you not to come over anymore. Be assertive with her.

We don’t even have all the details but none of us seem to like it. Your story creeped me out just by reading what you did post, maybe I watch too much sci-fi horror time.
But ya know what? If it’s giving you the creeps, I’d say it’s more than just a woman protecting herself from getting hurt again. If she’s never dated someone she met on a computer before then that could be it and maybe she’s testing you as well as protecting herself.
But if it’s to the point where it’s creeping you out I’d say you have two options: 1) demand some answers or 2) bail out

To be honest with you I find the whole situation a little odd. I too feel the same way you do about all this secrecy, especially that spare room. I am glad that you never went in there, who knows what is in there and whatever it is legal or illegal you don’t want a part of it. I don’t think there is trust for you on her part and her life is just to secretive to build any kind of relationship. I would tell her how you feel about the whole thing and how uncomfortable the whole thing makes you feel. Just tell her you like her and you don’t want to put a damper on the relationship but you just can’t live in secrecy like that. Either she clears the air with some information that you can accept or get out of the relationship. It is just to weird to stay there. There are a lot of weird people in this world, she ranks amongst those. Good luck to you and I wish you the very best. Just get out before you get hurt or worse.

i would definetly move on. sounds like she may have some sort of mental problem and you dont want to get involved with that!

The only way to find out what’s going on is to ask her: tell her that you feel that she is keeping a lot from you and that you’d like to get to know her better.

We can’t tell you what’s going on with your girlfriend.

It may be that she has a secret, or it may be that she’s just cautious. The only way to know is to actually communicate with her.

creeepy……I don’t think she would have her kid in that room for that many hours if she didn’t want you to see her kid yet. And it maybe that she has a surprise for you…but that sounds pretty creepy….You might want to break it off if she is not gonna tell you i wouldn’t go over to her house anymore

Personally, that would give me the creeps – enough to break it off. Who knows what is going on – but it is wierd; and things tend to get worse once you get more “entwined”

You know the saying – things that bother you now are worse once married. (not that you are going to marry her) but if she doesn’t improve her communication and come clean – it doesn’t sound like ya’ll can have a healthy relationship

Terry O said it well

I could get long winded but the bottom line would be the same. Move on.

Wow… hmmm. As a 36 yr old single mother, I might not want to introduce a guy I met online to kid just yet… But I would say the kid was there and never make my kid stay in one room of my house while I had a date over, hide him or make him hide.

And if I was, say, a stripper or had a grow-op or ******* gear or something right next door… no overnight guests who werent into it with me! LOL I am trying to think what else I might have a room hiding.

Your imagination… let alone everyone elses on here… will probably be far more twisted than reality. Be straight with her, that you like where this is heading but NEED to understand some stuff before this goes further. Be aware she may just be insecure or unconfident… assuming you would ditch her if you saw how sloppy her walk-in closet gets, or that she is a cat lady with 6 of them in there, or something. But she has to realise its time to say something if its time to have you sleep over!